Maria is a 72-year-old caregiver for her adult son, Keoni, who has an intellectual disability and early signs of dementia. For years she managed his care alone, not knowing how to navigate state systems or what supports were available. When her own health began to decline, she worried constantly about what would happen to Keoni if she could no longer care for him.
Through Council-supported outreach, Maria attended an Access & Thrive Resource Fair where she received culturally responsive guidance in a setting that felt safe and welcoming. She learned about respite options, legal decision-making tools, and how Powers of Attorney could prevent unnecessary hospital delays. She spoke with the Executive Office on Aging and finally understood how aging and disability systems connect.
For the first time, Maria said she felt seen as both a mother and an aging caregiver. “I’m not alone anymore,” she shared. “Now I have a plan for myself and for Keoni.”
This experience increased her confidence, reduced caregiver stress, and helped stabilize Keoni’s long-term supports.